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Created on 2008-07-28 18:38:03 (#16197667), last updated 2008-08-01
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Basic Info| Name: | hferg123 |
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BioI guess I'll start with:
Cliche as it sounds, I've spent my life trying to find out who i am or what I'm here for.
But it's been just recently that I've realized its not about FINDING yourself,
its about CREATING who you are and who you want to be.
No, I don't believe in a God but I do believe that by helping in a cause you're contributing to a greater good.
For me? No one makes my decisions, morals, values, or anything else like that but myself. I can change my life if i want, because it's mine. That sounds selfish but you know its true. We all have the right to oh i dont know... kill someone, maybe yourself. To be a slacker or an over-achiever. To be a good mother or not give a shit. Or maybe to get drunk or to sit at home. Some people make these decisions because they want to look good in someone else's eyes, but for me there is no one watching over me and I'm completely fine with that. I've set my own flexible standards and i don't need guidance until I ask for it. No, that doesn't mean that I'm going to do obscene acts just for the hell of it or out of spite. But Yes, it does mean that I'm going to do what pleases me within reason and if that includes something that is "immoral" well, just remember that i don't have the same set of morals as you.
Cliche as it sounds, I've spent my life trying to find out who i am or what I'm here for.
But it's been just recently that I've realized its not about FINDING yourself,
its about CREATING who you are and who you want to be.
No, I don't believe in a God but I do believe that by helping in a cause you're contributing to a greater good.
For me? No one makes my decisions, morals, values, or anything else like that but myself. I can change my life if i want, because it's mine. That sounds selfish but you know its true. We all have the right to oh i dont know... kill someone, maybe yourself. To be a slacker or an over-achiever. To be a good mother or not give a shit. Or maybe to get drunk or to sit at home. Some people make these decisions because they want to look good in someone else's eyes, but for me there is no one watching over me and I'm completely fine with that. I've set my own flexible standards and i don't need guidance until I ask for it. No, that doesn't mean that I'm going to do obscene acts just for the hell of it or out of spite. But Yes, it does mean that I'm going to do what pleases me within reason and if that includes something that is "immoral" well, just remember that i don't have the same set of morals as you.
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